The untold truth about female pleasure: ASK JANA

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I am 46 years old, engaged for the first time, and have an eight-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. I have worked hard to establish a stable life for us, including buying my own home and running a successful business. My fiancé, who is 33, is kind and supportive, although he earns less than me. When I suggested a prenup to protect what I've built and my daughter's future, he reacted negatively, feeling it implied a lack of trust. This has caused tension between us.

Columnist Jana Hocking advises a mother in her 40s planning to marry a younger man who is reluctant to discuss a prenup. She emphasizes that a prenup is about financial protection, not predicting failure, especially considering the responsibilities and experiences one brings into a marriage.

It is common for individuals to have difficulty reaching orgasm without fantasizing about past experiences or scenarios. This does not necessarily indicate a lack of interest in one's partner. Fantasizing during sex is a normal phenomenon that can enhance arousal and is not a form of infidelity.

Opening a marriage to reconnect can have unintended consequences, as in the case of a woman whose husband fell in love with someone else. In such situations, where one partner develops a deep emotional connection outside the marriage, it may signal irreparable damage to the relationship, indicating a need for reevaluation.